A. Yes & no. Upping your style allows you to express who you are in ways people can see & feel your energy within. When this happens, you will feel truly aligned, free, & at peace with who you are. Naturally, this will lead to more confidence & higher self-image.

A. While others focus on just wardrobe & shopping, I focus on a total transformation program including wardrobe check & shopping. I equip my clients with skills they can carry for life to be self-reliant. 

They include eyebrow salon, hair salon, posing lessons, virtual impact lesson, sexy dining etiquette lesson, Korean facial bone alignment treatment, dermatology consultation, various treatments, and of course, the photo shoot. In it, I include casual, date, business, & party look to show my clients all the ways I see them so they can fall in love with themselves.

A. By using the Law of Polarity (our feminine or masculine energy), to your full advantage through style, gestures, & mannerisms, you can instantly elevate your impact in the world. 

That is why I named my programs Femme Fatale & Homme Fatal Program: for my clients to have fun unleashing their sexy and stay motivated throughout their journey. Once you become aware of it, it becomes easier to own your style and of course, your sexy.

A. Draw attention to your feminine features subtly by using your hair, makeup, clothes, shoes, fragrance, gestures and mannerisms. Be mindful not to ruin your effort by avoiding masculine attire, poses, facial expressions, and mannerisms.

A. TPO is a Japanese English term for Time Place Occasion which is a key element in all of my programs. It is about paying attention, not just to what we wear from head-to-toe but also to the time of day (daytime or night?), the venue (luxury or casual?), and the occasion (casual, date, party or business?). It is about showing your respect and gratitude to your host for inviting you using your nonverbal communication, through your style and mannerisms. When you’re successful, you will know because it results in multiple, repeated invitations to anywhere.

Most of us dress slightly more formally to work when there’s a party afterwards, but I invite you to take an extra bag with a few items to add or change into specifically for each event. It doesn’t take much effort to put on a more colorful lipstick, do your hair differently, change into heels, put on a hat or throw on a scarf: your effort is another way you’ll be adding value to make a big difference.

A. Because everyone else is. When you do, we instantly feel guarded no matter how amazing you or your product is. If you come across as pushy or desperate, it is difficult to feel relaxed and safe in your presence. Instead, prioritize evoking people’s curiosity, making them want to get to know you using your nonverbal communication.

Once you learn to nail your first impression differently, people will continue to stay interested so you no longer have to make an effort. We prefer hospitable, friendly people who are “giving” rather than those who are focused on “getting.” 

A. Try experimenting different styles, hair & makeup, changing your poses & facial expressions slightly each time. Get into the habit of taking lots of photos. Ask a stranger to take pictures of you every chance you go out. Invest in a selfie stick and/or a  tripod to take pictures and videos of yourself in different clothes at different places. 

Models take good photos simply because they are always taking photos and have ample options. By practicing and finding what works best for you, you will feel more confident and relaxed.

A. The #1 mistake most make is investing a lot of money on a photographer without working on posing, facial expressions, and coordinating their outfits stylish beforehand. There’s not much any photographer can do for you except to retouch your photos later if you are fixated on your favorite suit/dress, hair & makeup, with no posing skills or facial expression variations. It’s such a waste of a wonderful opportunity, which is why I have these lessons beforehand. 

A. By making sure you are not protruding your face to the camera and practicing all the time. The more you take photos in different clothes, lights, angles, hairstyles, makeup, etc., the sooner you will find what works.

Most choose a photo in a nice outfit, staring straight at the camera to attempt their best smile. But photos, especially your profile photo, is a direct reflection of your taste that speaks for who you are. 

That photo you use should always look better than you in person. WIll it motivate people to want to accept your friend request? Interact with you? Share their time and energy? 

Focus on providing an experience using your style rather than faking a smile, even if it’s just for your profile photo. Most of the time, there’s no need to look straight at the camera if at all.

A. Quality and quantity increase, e.g. sales, friend requests, follower #s, and new opportunities. We all love things that are pleasing to our eyes: that is why we go to museums.

A. If your profile photo is not radiating your energy externally, it is difficult for people to want to engage with you, let alone find you. Personally, I don’t like to accept requests when the photo is questionable or worse, there isn’t any.

A. By changing your own perception of yourself. I recommend watching Amy Schumer’s comedy “I Feel Pretty” to see how powerful our own self-perception is. 

If you look and feel good to you, people respond to that energy regardless. But getting outside help by hiring a professional really helps because we all have limited information and no room for more mistakes. The biggest change I see and feel in my clients throughout my program is their attitudes about themselves and how they see the world transform completely. A style makeover is the best self-affirmation/visualization tool in my mind.

A. To show that you are a versatile, playful, mindful, stylish person who is respectful to your host all the time. Most of us have a go-to look that makes us feel stylish, but our repertoires are often very limited. By increasing the number of stylish, head-to-toe ensembles, people will see that they can invite you everywhere, be it a dinner party at the White House or the Burning Man.

A. Making sure you’re not in the front or protruding your face to the camera as that will most likely make you look least attractive. Many public figures except for celebs tend to protrude their faces to be accommodating or show their friendliness but this often works against them. Also, make sure to go asymmetry and use props to appear natural.

A. Most of us tense up and look straight at the camera symmetrically, which is the worst pose. We also tend to attempt a big smile, but instead, we can tilt our heads, look off the camera, use our shoulders, and vary our poses to look more playful and relaxed.

A. We can tell when people are gossiping or complaining from a mile away: unfortunately, it never is a good idea when our brains are biologically wired to categorize people good or bad, friendly or unfriendly, safe or dangerous. I advise my clients not to gossip or complain and if they absolutely must, to do it with a smile instead of furrowing their eyebrows. 

A. Adam’s apple, hands, fingers, neck, shoulders, chest, ankles, forehead wrinkles, etc. Select items and facial expressions that accentuate these features to instantly elevate your style.

A. Neck, fingers, nails, legs, ankles, wrists, collarbone (decollete), hips, bustline, hair, etc. Select items and facial expressions that accentuate these features to instantly elevate your style.

A. Use props including your friend, partner, children, pet, etc. that bring a smile to you or make people think they did. Don’t be caught up attempting a full-teeth-showing smile: you can vary the level of your smile depending on how many teeth you show, if at all. Also, remembering funny scenes from a movie when it’s time for a picture can help.

A. Because they are. So are heels, jewelry, nail polish, small purses, skimpy clothes, etc. but to look stylish, we generally need to be doing more of what others think they can’t or won’t do while making it seem effortless. The good news is that you don’t need to wear them all day: you can simply change for the event where you want to look stylish and daring. 

A. Because it makes you unmemorable, possibly invisible. Most of us invest in black at first because it seems practical and safe. Many feel it’s stylish and chic, but how can people identify you later if you wear black? Opt for colors, designs, items that make you stand out without blending in. Try wearing a hat, a conversation piece, etc. to elevate your impact.